Gospel star Deitrick Haddon dropped the bombshell today announcing the real reason why him and his ex-wife Damita Haddon split.
At Press time we haven’t got Damita’s take on the issue, but what we once thought was an amicable divorce, is now a love triangle involving another Gospel star Isaac Carree.
Haddon apparently couldn’t take the comments from critics and felt it necessary to set the record straight and end the speculation surrounding his divorce, new girl friend, and his new baby born out of wedlock.
Here’s what Deitrick had to say in his own words:
Coming clean in 2013 so God can really be truly glorified
My objective in this personal message to my supporters is to set the record straight on why I divorced my ex-wife, to clear my daughter’s and fiancé’s name, and to give you the truth. I’m not here to throw anyone under the bus, but I refuse to remain silent while people slander my name because the other parties involved are refusing to speak up for me and about their involvement in this matter. I regret having to continue to speak on this but you all need to know the truth from my perspective.
It does not feel good when people make comments saying that I left my wife for a younger woman and a baby!! It’s simply not the truth & the truth is recorded in heaven! Heaven keeps good records & i have no reason to lie!!! I met the young lady when i moved to L.A a broken mess & God used her to keep me from committing suicide twice!! I do admit that she did get pregnant before my divorce was final as my divorce carried on for over a year. However an abortion was not an option for me so I covered her & she covered me while we both repented of our sins & submit to spiritual leadership. As a sign of humility & accountability, I have not preached on any platform in any church for one year!! I’ve paid my penalty for my sin!!
I understand that my ex-wife wants to keep quiet & she has that right but to allow people to think this way about me while she remain Quiet is not cool when I was a good husband, not perfect but a good husband & friend to her for years!! I take full responsibility for my actions but I WILL NOT take responsibility for the cause of my actions. I don’t expect Damita to be bold enough to go public because people will take your transparency & rub it in your face & even Christians who are called to restore & forgive will be ready to throw stones at her for something that God has forgiven her for & is in her past. Unfortunately, we happen to live in a religious community that preach forgiveness but when the opportunity presents itself to show it they just don’t do it!!!
However, I do expect Isaac Carree to stand up and be man enough to own his mistakes & give his fans the truth they deserve to know. I appreciate your new song ‘Clean this house”, you know I’ve always been a fan of yours since day one & I’ve never done anything to hurt you but you left one sin out of your song that would have set the record straight & solidified my healing process & that is adultery! I hate to see you walk in deception when it’s unnecessary. Yes I have forgiven you but I want to see you be the true man that God is calling for all us to be. The Gospel community & church has had enough deception. Let’s come clean in 2013. I forgive you & I love you bro but it’s time to be real.
For those that are small minded & will say that I may be jealous of Isaac. That is incorrect, I have always shown my support to him & I celebrate the gifts that God has blessed us with in the Kingdom. However, I have kept quiet & covered him for 2 years since I found out & it wasn’t easy to watch the man that broke up my home run around singing on stages as if he had done nothing devastating to a his fellow brother in the Gospel!!
I have moved on… God has blessed me with a baby that has in many ways neutralized the enemies darts that have been thrown against me. Please let it go down in the books that I did not leave Damita for a younger woman, that is not just not the truth!!
Isaac the ball is in your court & no longer in mine. I sincerely wish you the best but it’s time for us to be real if we’re gonna spread this Gospel. Anything other than that is unnecessary hypocrisy!! I don’t need an apology but your fans deserve an apology for the damage that have been caused by your actions!!
I truly apologize for the damage all this has & will cause the Gospel community & the church. I never dreamed in a million years that I would be part of such foolishness but I’m determined to never bring this kind of shame to the body of Christ again!!
UPDATE: ISAAC CARREE RESPONDS TO DEITRICK HADDON’S ACCUSATIONS
mmm this just got a whole lot messier.
To whom ever that posted this, that is not right to do. Men and women of God doesn’t get into someone’s marriages you stand back and pray. God sees us all and he is not pleased. So wrong for uping this regardless of what he said.
It is time for us to be who God has called us to be….Either His Word is a lie or it is truth! We as Christians are His witnesses. If our lives have not been transformed by the Blood of Jesus then how can we tell the World about a Savior who can deliver? Yes, this is a mess, but I have to agree with Deitrick that it is time for the 100% to come out. If he and Damita–and Deitrick’s fiancee can submit and be disciplined by the church for a year, what makes Isaac Carree believe that he gets a pass? The BIBLE SAYS in 1 Corinthians 5 that things like this should not even be heard of among the Body of Christ–and unless he publically (in this situation) repents, we are to step away from him physically until he does–and never cease to pray for him or love him as a Brother.
We have allowed homosexuality, fornication, and adultery to go unanswered long enough in the Gospel arena. God is not mocked! We all have sinned and have to seek forgiveness after we repent of our sins, and God calls spiritual leaders to a higher standard. His music should not be compromised with the spirit of lust falling on those who are seeking victory of their sin! What witness is it to our CHILDREN? To the unchurched? To those who don’t know Jesus. I submit, that we never cease to pray earnestly for everyone involved–especially Issac Caree’s wife and family–but God expects us to stand according to His Word and hold each other accountable so that we can mature spiritually and most of all be saved in His Kingdom. Jesus is coming SOON….Maranatha!
It’s okay Deitric….people will always judge, but you really don’t have to say you paid for your sins because Jesus Paid it All at the cross, and God said He will remember your sins no more. (Isaiah 43: 25 & Heb 10:16-17). Wishing you much happiness and success from today onwards. May God’s goodness and mercy follow you and your family all the days of your life!!!
Stay strong, our father takes us through the valley of the shadow of death, you had to go this way, our father has shaken some things off that needed to be shaken, so that everything that cannot be shaken can remain. Get ready you are about to enter the greatest time of your life, I have been asking the father “what is Dietrick doing” now I know, you have been in preparation. Jeremiah 29:11 (read it dietrick). Love you
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